From coins to crisp notes: The story behind salami and why it still matters

On Eid morning, the ritual is almost predictable.

Children, dressed in new clothes, move from one elder to another, offering a cheerful "Salam." In return comes a smile, a prayer and, most importantly, a crisp note folded neatly into their hands. For many, this moment defines Eid as much as the prayers or the feast.

We call it salami. In other parts of the Muslim world, it's known as "Eidi". But where did this beloved tradition actually come from?

The answer stretches far beyond our homes, deep into history.

A tradition born in royal courts

Long before it became a family custom, Eidi had a very different setting: royal palaces.

Historians trace its early form back to the Fatimid Caliphate in 10th-century Egypt. During Eid, rulers would distribute gold coins, clothes and gifts among the public. This practice, known as "Al-Eidiyah", was both generosity and governance. It strengthened loyalty while spreading festive joy.

Later, under the Mamluk period (1250–1517), the idea took on a more structured form. Soldiers and officials received extra payments during Eid, something that closely resembles today's Eid bonus.

By the time of the Ottoman Empire (1299–1922), the tradition had softened into something more personal. Elders began giving small amounts of money to children, often referred to as pocket money. The focus shifted from power to affection.

That shift is what brought the tradition closer to what we recognise today.

How it became 'salami' in our region

When the practice reached the Indian subcontinent during the Mughal era, it blended with local customs.

Mughal emperors celebrated Eid with grandeur, distributing gifts and gold coins among courtiers and common people alike. Gift-giving was already part of court culture, so the transition felt natural.

But the real transformation happened later.

With the spread of paper currency during British rule, giving money became easier and more widespread. At the same time, a cultural layer was added in Bengal and across South Asia.

Children would greet elders with "Salam," and in return receive a small amount of money along with blessings. Over time, this exchange gave birth to the word "salami" literally, money given for a greeting.

It was no longer about rulers and subjects. It became about families.

Religion and reality

Despite how common it is, salami is not a religious requirement.

There is no direct mention of Eidi or salami in the Quran. Islamic teachings clearly emphasise obligations like zakat and sadaqat al-fitr, which ensure that those in need can celebrate Eid with dignity.

Salami belongs to a different space. It is cultural, not compulsory.

Still, it fits comfortably within Islamic values. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) encouraged exchanging gifts as a way to build love and strengthen relationships. In that sense, giving Eidi is less about money and more about connection.

More than just a note

Today, salami carries meanings that go far beyond its historical roots.

For children, it is excitement, independence and sometimes their first experience of managing money. Many save it, plan what to buy or feel a sense of ownership over their choices.

For elders, it is a simple but meaningful way to express care. A small gesture that says, "I remember you, I bless you, I want you to be happy."

In a world where family interactions are often rushed, this exchange slows things down. It creates a moment.

A tradition evolving with time

Like everything else, salami is changing.

Cash is still common, but digital transfers, gift cards and even non-monetary gifts are becoming part of the tradition. The form may shift, but the intention remains the same.

What has also changed, though, is the pressure around it.

In some cases, the simplicity of salami gets lost in comparison and expectation. Larger amounts, social display or subtle competition can take away from its original spirit.

That is where balance matters.

At its core, salami is about joy, not obligation.

It should not push anyone into financial strain, nor should it create entitlement among those receiving it. Gratitude and moderation are as important as generosity.

Guiding children on how to use their Eidi wisely can also turn this tradition into something even more meaningful, a small lesson in responsibility alongside celebration.

Why it still matters

What makes salami special is not its value, but its continuity.

From gold coins in royal courts to folded notes in family homes, it has travelled across centuries without losing its essence. It connects generations, carries memories and adds a personal touch to a shared celebration.

In the end, salami is not just money.

It is a gesture of love, a moment of connection and a reminder that even the simplest traditions can hold the deepest meaning.